Day 17: What is the Advantage of Reflection in Coaching and Leadership?
As we journey towards emerging as entrepreneurial or organizational leaders during COVID-19, have you thought of the numerous advantages of having a partnership with a professional coach? My guess is that you will eventually be coached, but just as importantly you will learn to use coaching as a leadership competency! Leaders can find themselves in overwhelming situations at the best…
READ MOREDay 16: Is Forgiveness a Leadership Strategy?
There is one essential ingredient to being a better leader in difficult times. That ingredient is having the courage to forgive. A leader faces many difficult issues head-on. She does not procrastinate or make excuses. She faces her own faults. She faces the faults and deeds of others, and deals with them—especially when they constitute past baggage. This means great…
READ MOREDay 15: Could Optimism be a Muscle That Gets Stronger From Use?
Not all of us are born optimistic but because of neuroplasticity, we have a choice and a chance to strengthen optimistic pathways to reprogram our thinking and mindset habits. With intention, attention, and repeated practice, we can choose to increase our positive, optimistic, and emotional thinking muscles. This type of thinking will help us to be more mindful when we…
READ MOREDay 14: Do You Know What You Stand For? Values Can Help!
What are Values? Values are simply things about your work and life that are intrinsically valuable or desirable to you. They can be accessed most easily by asking yourself the question, “What do I want out of my work/life?” or, “Why do I work?” Values are at the core of our individuality and experiences. Who you are and how you treat…
READ MOREDay 13: What are the Benefits of Loving/Kindness for Leadership?
The traditional command and control leadership style trains us to lead with our heads, not our hearts. I am not disputing that this method is not useful, but could we lead with both? High achieving women are not push overs! When we use the words love, kindness, and compassion, our brains could be conditioned to think, “enough”! “Just give me…
READ MOREDay 12: Can Nature Help Us Lead Mindfully?
When was the last time you stepped out in Nature? Many studies have shown that nature based images, sounds, and walking in nature can have a positive impact on our well-being. The human mind is seldom quiet, and when you add in the extra stressors of COVID-19 and other concerns, we are asking our minds and bodies to be working…
READ MOREDay 11: What Type of Thinking Hinders a Resilient Mindset?
In order to become or remain resilient, it’s important to understand our own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Could your current thinking be contributing to your resilience or making being resilient more difficult? Compassion is key to remaining focused and resilient even in extreme situations, so we are able to choose thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that are able to keep us…
READ MOREDay 10: How Do You Get Out of Stress? Let’s Start With Sleep and Rest!
It is very important to understand that quality sleep is vital to stress management, resiliency and leadership presence! Making sleep a priority, could help you become a more successful leader with improved brain health. A mindset of thinking that rest and relaxation is proving to be a leadership strategy! During the COVID-19 pandemic, there has been a great deal of disruption…
READ MOREDAY 9: Putting it in Perspective!
This tip of Putting it in Perspective allows you to create more accurate thinking regarding an event or situation, resulting in greater personal resilience. The first step is to write down your beliefs regarding the event or situation: 1. Ask Yourself, “What is the worst thing that can happen”? It is important to remember the items that you can really…
READ MOREDAY 8: Self-Talk: Antagonist or Ally?
What have you been telling yourself lately? Self-talk is very revealing! The little voice that sits on your shoulder and whispers into your ear can be either an antagonist or an ally. What you tell yourself goes immediately to your subconscious where it increases or decreases your anger, frustration or other emotions. Repeated negative self-talk leads to exaggerated and irrational…
READ MOREDay 7: Permission to be YOU!
Do you have a Life Purpose? What I appreciate most about COVID -19 is that it gives us permission to not always be ok! That’s right: It allows us to be more vulnerable, truthful and reflective! Even before COVID-19, I’ve been in process of determining what is most important in life. I’ve used the philosophy of Life Purpose as a centering…
READ MOREDay 5: How Are You Feeling Today?
It is hard to believe we are in our second week of our journey from Chaos to CALM. These tips are here to inspire you to harness “Your Powerful Leadership Presence” during COVID-19 and beyond! They are for your discernment only! The Coaching Nest believes that by developing some of these emotionally intelligent habits, you will have more “presence of mind” to make…
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